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Frequently Asked Questions

Having experience of practical work with people, we advised them on many questions. The answers on most frequently questions are given below. If you have some troubles, address to us.

1. What for to me to know the socionic personality type?
2. What may give the person his characteristic?
3. How to find a dual?
4. Whether the level of culture, education, interests is taken into account by search a dual?
5. What I have to do, if I love the man, and he is not my dual?
6. Whether it is necessary to continue relationships with a dual if it is pleasant to be with him, but there is no love?
7. What to do, if three duals wanted to marry me, but my heart is silent?
8. Why do I dislike my duals?
9. What I have to do if my director find faults with me?
10. What I have to do if I do not like the director?
11. What to do, if workers ignore tasks and instructions of a head?
12. How to punish the child in order to him to be obedient?
13. How it is possible to help teenagers in the difficult period of awkward age?
14. Is it possible to influence a person, knowing his weak sides?

1. What for to me to know the socionic personality type?

You will better know yourself, your inherent potenialities: what you will do well, easily and will give satisfaction and what will be given difficultly, with strain, and thus you will feel also diffidence and alarm - incompetence. In other words - what you are strong in, and what you are weak in. The better you know your character, the less mistakes you will make in life. And the most important: you will know, person of what socionic type supplements you. Only with a dual you will be happy, only such friend or the partner in life will satisfy all your needs.

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2. What may give the person his characteristic?

The characteristic will give the pleasant sensations at acquaintance with it. Knowledge of yourself and those sides about which, you may never guess, the confidence of youself, an opportunity to improve, using own strengths. You will have a success in any situations due to knowledge of the own weak sides and skill to not mention them. Your characteristic will give a joy and support in hard time, help in solving problems, as knowing yourself, you know how it is better to behave in those or other circumstances. Reading the characteristic, you remove internal stresses, mobilize yourselves, become self-assured. The understanding of yourself results in self-esteem.

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3. How to find a dual?

There are some ways to find a mental supplementing person – your dual. It is possible to use services of Ukrainian Socionic database (US-BASE) or to get practical skills of recognition of the duals at training in Centre of Socionics, and to search duals independently. It is possible to determine socionic types of your familiars and to know, who surrounds you, whether there are duals among them, certainly, preliminary having determined your socionic type. You may choose, what it is more convenient for you. Duality costs expenses for its searches.

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4. Whether the level of culture, education, interests is taken into account by search a dual through US-BASE?

Certanly. You see everyone who wishes to get acquainted with a dual, fill in the questionnaire in which there are questions which mention many different properties of the person.

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5. What I have to do, if I love the man, and he is not my dual?

Please, meet more frequently, try even to live in a civil marriage, but refrain from birth of the child to not spoil his life and to not add to yourself extra problems. In due course you will feel what to do further. And then each of you will want to search duals to compare to that person, whom are you so devoted to now. And the child may complicate your relationships with a dual in the future.

Therefore it is better to trust a science and do not injure your soul, do not spoil nerves neither yorself, no your love. Take care of yourself and your time – have a talk and stay as friends simply. And each of you search for yourself duals for pleasant, relative relationships and making a family. We assure, only with a dual you will feel the real love, happiness, liberty and rise of soul.

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6. Whether it is necessary to continue relationships with a dual if it is pleasant to be with him, but there is no love?

Are you sure, that it is your dual? If so, continue to be friends. Do not lose hope. Frank dialogue will help you to solve your problems easy, sincerity of dialogue will result in the greater self-disclosing and the best knowledge each other. And aspiration to tell everything will pull you together. Find the common interests, and eventually you will feel necessity in each other.

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7. What to do, if three duals wanted to marry me, but my heart is silent?

The main cause - absence of the common interests and wrong purposes. Probably, there were lack of coincidence of needs or the overestimated requirements of one of the sides. Reflection of the past experience, a passion for romantic histories of heroes of films or books gives the far-fetched imagination about love. And the reality then seems to be more prosaic. Think, whether your discharged images may to coincide with characters of alive people. Your aims and the images drawn by imagination prevent you to pay attention to persons more deeply to penetrate into his inner world, and make those desires which go from your soul to be shown.

There are relationships which quickly grasp and twist in dependence. Probably, you have already had such of them, and duality seems too easy and banal on their background - simply pleasant dialogue. But you want to capture and learn everything hurriedly, but the force of duality demands emotional depth and an openness.

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8. Why do I dislike my duals?

Probably, you are satisfied by presence of sympathy and have got used, that you are given a lot of attention and care, accept it as for due, and there is no value for you - who is with you. Cunning, deep-seatedness, a deceit are exposed in duality at once. Only crafty people do not perceive duals. If you have a habit only to take from people, and a pleasure of dialogue and a personality of a person has no value for you, you have no needs in duals. You see dual relations are relations on equal, relations of interchange, instead of the relation of a king and a page.

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9. What I have to do if my director find faults with me?

Analyse, what exactly you do not satisfy your director with? If you try, but are unable to satisfy requirements of the director, probably, you are not on the place. Then it is better to choose other kind of activity. Look after, what influences your interactions. The knowing of natural relationships between you will help you. Frankly ask the head what exactly you do wrongly, and do not hesitate to ask him, whether your director has the prejudiced attitude to you, it may only seems to you because of your other internal problems.

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10. What I have to do if I do not like the director?

At first find the reason of absence of contact to a director. If it concerns organizational questions, it means that your head is an introvert. Then you have no other way than to change a place of work. If your head is an extravert, you have a chance to find out the reason of misunderstanding to discuss them with a head and to adjust cooperation. It is better to determine precisely your duties and to fix them by written contract.

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11. What to do, if workers ignore tasks and instructions of a head?

Analyse, that you have to do, and what work it is better to give anothers, showing thus their independence. Do not shift the responsibility and own duties on others. Distribute the work in order to determine precisely, who will be engaged in this or that work directly. To not demand of workers more, than they are capable to do. Expose what things the workers are capable to do, and what are not.

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12. How to punish the child in order to him to be obedient?

You can’t punish anybody, especially the child. His soul is so fragile, defenceless, impressionable. The child thirsts understanding, the help, favour, and you instead of it push away him by punishment. How he will regard for you then, receiving for his love to you cruelty and humiliation? He will become isolated, will take offence, and it will alienation between you. Some children who are easy for taking on a fright, being afraid of punishment, will be obey, but will protest internally, and grow hypocrites and bootlickers. The others become obstinate, uncompromising, and you will reach a boomerang effect by punishment – you will grow not obedient, but the capricious, rebellious child.

How to behave then, in order to bring up the child cleverly? To prepare the child for life, it is necessary to know his congenital features correctly to direct him it according to them. You see the nature is stronger than any education and if you will act in a unison and in cocert with it, you will bring up a true, worthy person who will feel easy in life as he will know what he wants, can assert himself, and the othes will respect him. Acting according to the internal core - his potential – he will make less mistakes in life. And if there are any misunderstanding and disagreement between you, it is necessary to determine the natural relationships between you and to take into account it, correcting mutual relations. It is necessary to treat the child kindly, with understanding, soul, love - and he will obey with readiness and listen to you as will respect you and love.

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13. How it is possible to help teenagers in the difficult period of awkward age?

In a transition period of 12-15 years teenagers may feel confusion because of ignorance of themselves and uncertainty, fear before adult life or to behave cheeky, haughtily and impudently. They lose belief in their own forces and may commit follies, not receiving understanding in family and having got in the doubtful companies of coevals. In this period teenagers demand in particular the close and sensitive attitude to them, a recognition of their importance, respect, emphasis of their merits. Definition of socionic type and the characteristic in particular expanded with professional ability will help with self-knowledge and finding of confidence of themselves. It is possible to receive detailed consultations from experts of Centre of Socionics. Here you will receive exhaustive answers to all questions which disturb you. It will be a real, practical solution of your problems.

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14. Is it possible to influence a person, knowing his weak sides?

It is possible, but it is not authorized to manipulate the person, because it is immoral and unethical. It destroys his mentality, and probable you will hardly reach the purpose. You may receive time results, but the person is an independent essence, he will quickly understand, that he is manipulated and used in the own purposes and will protest. Consequences of such influence may be unfavourable.

It is better to use the strong sides of a person. He will be grateful to you for an opportunity of self-realization. He will open the talents and realize wholly his opportunities. You will receive double advantage - both for yourselves and for other person.

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