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Relationships with Other People

Закономерность отношений

Во взаимодействиях людей определенных социотипов между ними возникают закономерные отношения. Они развиваются во времени и их проявления зависят от психологический дистанции.
Все отношения при соблюдении определённой психологической дистанции дают свою пользу в общении. Достаточно нарушить границы дистанции, как эта польза оборачивается во вред взаимодействиям, принося неприятности.
Зная прогноз развития отношений, можно регулировать дистанцию общения.
 
                                                   Три этапа развития отношений

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Отношения

 I - Привлекающий

   ІІ – Переходный    ІІІ – Результат

 1

 дуальные

 гармония

 усовершенствование

 прогресс

 2

 активационные

 наслаждение

 подъём-спад

 истощение

 3

 тождественные

 лёгкость

 равнодушие

 пустота

 4

 зеркальные

 доверчивость

 поучение

 отчуждённость

 5

 полудуальные

 азарт

 подавление

 разногласия

 6

 миражные

 расслабление

 несуразица

 вседозволенность

 7

 параллельные

 идиллия

 трагедия

 опустошённость

 8

 родственные

 самоуважение

 верховенство

 пренебрежение

 9

 квазитождественные

 восхваление

 несогласованность

 отчуждение

10

 деловые

 комплимент

 конкуренция

 потеря веры

11

 супер-эго

 самоценность

 подвох

 унижение

12

 передатчик

 угодливость

 снисходительность

 неопределённость

13

 приёмник

 благосклонность

 предупредительность

 навязчивость

14

 ревизор

 забота

 напряжённость

 раздражительность

15

 подревизный

 спокойность

 неприемлемость

 беспомощность

16

 противоположные

 оригинальность

 сложность

 стычки

Таблица межличностных отношений

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 Кто мне

1

2

3

4

5

6

7

8

9

10

11

12

13

14

15

16

ИЛЭ

СЭИ

ЛИИ

ЭСЭ

ЭИЭ

ЛСИ

ИЭИ

СЛЭ

ЛИЭ

ЭСИ

ИЛИ

СЭЭ

ИЭЭ

СЛИ

ЭИИ

ЛСЭ

1

 ИЛЭ

Т

Д

З

А

Пр

Под

М

Дел

К

Прт

Пар

Сэ

Р

пД

Рев

Пер

2

 СЭИ

Д

Т

Акт

З

Под

Пр

Діл

М

Прт

К

Сэ

Пар

пД

Р

Пер

Рев

3

 ЛИИ

З

А

Т

Д

пД

Р

Пер

Рев

Пар

Сэ

К

Прт

Под

Пр

Діл

М

4

 ЭСЭ

А

З

Д

Т

Р

нПд

Рев

Пер

Сэ

Пар

Прт

К

Пр

Под

М

Дел

5

 ЭИЭ

Пер

Рев

пД

Р

Т

Д

З

А

Дел

М

Под

Пр

К

Прт

Пар

Сэ

6

 ЛСИ

Рев

Пер

Р

пД

Д

Т

А

З

М

Дел

Пр

Под

Прт

К

Сэ

Пар

7

ИЭИ

М

Дел

Пр

Под

З

А

Т

Д

Рев

Пер

Р

пД

Пар

Сэ

К

Прт

8

 СЛЭ

Дел

М

Под

Пр

А

З

Д

Т

Пер

Рев

пД

Р

Сэ

Пар

Прт

К

9

 ЛИЭ

К

Прт

Пар

Сэ

Дел

М

Под

Пр

Т

Д

З

А

Пер

Рев

пД

Р

10

 ЭСИ

Прт

К

Сэ

Пар

М

Дел

Пр

Под

Д

Т

А

З

Рев

Пер

Р

пД

11

 ИЛИ

Пар

Сэ

К

Прт

Рев

Пер

Р

нПд

З

А

Т

Д

М

Дел

Пр

Под

12

 СЭЭ

Сэ

Пар

Прт

К

Пер

Рев

нПд

Р

А

З

Д

Т

Дел

М

Под

Пр

13

 ИЭЭ

Р

пД

Рев

Пер

К

Прт

Пар

Сэ

Пр

Под

М

Дел

Т

Д

З

А

14

 СЛИ

пД

Р

Пер

Рев

Прт

К

Сэ

Пар

По

Пр

Дел

М

Д

Т

А

З

15

 ЭИИ

Под

Пр

Дел

М

Пар

Сэ

К

Прт

пД

Р

Пер

Рев

З

А

Т

Д

16

 ЛСЭ

Пр

Под

М

Дел

Сэ

Пар

Прт

К

Р

Пд

Рев

Пер

А

  З

Д

Т

Д - дуальные З - зеркальные А - активационные Т - тождественные

пД - полудуальные

Прт - противоположные К - квазитожлество Р - родственные

Пар - параллельные

Рев - ревизные Пер - передатчик Сэ - супер эго
М - миражные Под - подревизные Пр - приемник Дел - деловые

Relationships with Other People

In our relationships we behave differently with different people. We act in different ways depending on who we communicate with. This conforms to the laws of the nature of relations, which cause the behavior of people. Thus certain relationship in which a person finds himself/herself influence behavior of a person.

One starts to contact with other people on the basis of formal relationship, and at this stage always shows off the best features of ones character. At the beginning what is important is sympathy, interests, world outlooks, differences, which attract. In a state of falling in love a person may perceive the world and his/her partner in bright light, often losing their common sense. As the time passes two people begin to know and understand each other more, new sensations arise, a person begins to be more open and brings one’s needs and wishes into the relationship. And depending on whether these needs and wishes are satisfied completely, partly or not satisfied at all, nuances start to appear in relationships.

Any partial or complete dissatisfaction leads to conflict in future. Everybody wants to satisfy these needs, but the problem is that it is impossible. Everything depends on relationship. Every person has his/her own programme of psychological reconcilability (mental compatibility). When the programmes do not coincide, the perceiving of each other is not as it must be.

There is the transitive period in all relationships, and then there is the natural trend of development interactions. People involve in relationships quickly and begin to analyse them when they are stable and partners need to open themselves wholly and satisfy all their needs, wishes and expectations. At this stage a person can neither lead nor change anything in relationships, when time passes, stagnation begins and the conflict appears between the partners, which accumulates aggressiveness, restraint and indifference. People acquire negative traits which cause constant irritations and nervousness. It is not the fault of partners but inevitable influence of uncomplimentary relationships.

Mental, spritual and intellectual functions of our organism depend not only on us but to equal degree on the people with whom we interact. Relationships which are not dual lead to personality’s devastation, frustration, nervous diseases and mental problems, ruin his/her health.

A person without one’s dual is uneasy, has a spiritual hunger, and does not understand what is the source of this hunger and whose fault it is. The person perceives that he/she is not understood and tries to find the reasons in conditions of childhood which hindered thriving, in one’s own family or friends, society or in oneself. In such a state it is difficult to be in harmony with the world. Different conflicts, contradictions, irritation, aggressiveness, depression accumulate. It is difficult to see the world and oneself objectively without the dual. Such a person is unbalanced, has inner problems and can not solve them, which keep him/her in a constant dependence on the partner, relationship with whom are not satisfactory. He/she wants to see and speak with such a partner in order to clear up their relationships and get rid of burden of problems, but in vain. The person misses the other one and thinks, that he/she is in a grab of love, because all the thoughts are about the partner, who has such influence and keeps so much attention. Such influence depresses, distracts, lowers activity.

The person is capable to coordinate relationships at the moment of a transitional period, when there are still no responsibilities before the partner and it is possible to default of his/her requests. And if he/she understands that something is not acceptable in the friend, if it is desirable can keep away or break off relationships.

Such regularity exists throughout, except for dual relationship. In dual relationship there is a possibility to find ourself and to allow our friend to be himself/herself. Duals also admire of each other, but they don't focuse their attention on the partner only and on their relationship, it is pleasure of communication, when you are understood, it is balance, activity, desire to see the partner and to shear thoughts. It is support and help natural without tension. The absence of problems in mutual understanding enables to be active and engaged in interesting matters. When apart they don't become anxious and their activity is not reduced but they still do lack one another. And it does not matter whether it is family, friendly or business relationships the dual ones is always mutual understanding and mutual help. "The life is difficult for an undualized person while for a dualized the life is joyfull" (Aushra Аugustinavichute). The aspiration for duality subconsciously lives in each person.

A certain type of relationship appears in communication. There are 16 objective relationships between people, miscellaneous in the developments, and this is not noticed at once.

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